Individuals show they care in many ways; it is important to consider these methods below when showing your friends and family that you care.
Listening: whether it is patiently listening to a rant, valuing their opinion, or even sitting in silence, giving time and space for your loved ones to express themselves shows that you care and accept them.
Spending time: depending on physical distance and each individual’s needs, this can be meaningful both in-person and virtually. Reaching out to check-in via a phone call, going out on a special date, and even doing simple chores with another person can mean a lot in showing attention and care.
Noticing needs and wants: by noticing your loved ones’ needs, you can be more present for them. Remember, sometimes it is the smallest things that matter the most! Helping out with a task, offering useful information, and even simply showing gratitude can prove that you recognize them, that you are responsive and care about their needs and goals in life.
Lastly, being patient and explaining your own needs to others is just as important. Relationships are two-sided and giving your loved ones a chance to show they care not only helps you but also opens and deepens your relationship through trust.
The next time you see a friend or spend time with a loved one, notice how they show you they care and consider how you can reciprocate!